Parent-Teacher Conference
IEP Meetings Make sure you: Plan the time for the meeting. Allow enough time to discuss all issues Write down all the talking points Put it in writing so you don't miss a critical point Make decisions on expected outcomes Discuss what outcomes you would like to see Create a way to evaluate outcomes Develop a way to observe accountability Avoid arguments and convey your point Listen to all sides before discussing alternatives Be proactive by being willing to help Make sure you are clear that you want to be a partner in your childs education Always schedule a follow up Don't rely on making a follow up later - Do it NOW!! |
Don't Fix them Teach ThemAll children are special. They are all gifted with unique talents that give them strength in life. Each of us have our own special needs and many of us make wrong choices even though our culture demands that we make “right”choices on the basic issues of life. We seek love and since love is such a good thing in our lives, anything that adds love into our lives should be priceless. We are creatures of materialism. No matter how we try to convince ourselves otherwise, we are basically worldly in our view of life. We want everything to be “right” and that goes double for our children. We all want children that perform at the top of their class, play sports like professionals, and do great at everything they do. We are scared of children that challenge us and demand more of our attention. When we love those children that are needy or weak, and cannot give anything material in return, it reveals the most precious form of love. It is unconditional. Each of us is born with a special purpose. We each seek out that purpose in life, as complex or simplistic as it is; this is what drives us. We all have shortcomings. These imperfections are what make us human. As typical adults we try to build on our strengths and overcome our shortcomings. However, when it comes to our children with a disability we want to “cure” them. Instead of trying to “cure” them, we need to face their disabilities boldly and help them make adaptations that will increase their happiness in life. The world is full of diverse people. Just as we accept and respect their differences, we need to do the same with our children. We cannot change the world so we need to accept the reality of the situation and make sure our child has every opportunity to find their special purpose and be happy. |